Oprah Winfrey's advises WOMEN on MEN

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to
be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes
you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a
friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he Probably
is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not
better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch
of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why
would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than
you are...
Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing
less.
Never let a man define who you
are.

Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to
treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...
There is nothing cute about baggage...
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE
you...
A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals...
look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.

Make him miss you sometimes...
when a man always know where you are,
and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you
everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know
others.

They say it takes a
minute to find a special person,
an hour to
appreciate them,
a day to
love them,
and an
entire lifetime to forget them.

* Got this lil thingy from other site.. hehe... can keep as reference.. prevent from being destroyed by any guys.. hahaha...